Xshadowdancex, 53

Greetings. Ah, they jump to the chase. Well, as an introduction would be in order, I'll actually show my stubborn streak and both answer the question while avoiding it. I think the best way to get to know someone, initially, as a first impression is through speaking to them personally. But for the curious, a bite. I would basically describe myself as both of native american and white dcent. I am religeous, but I consider it a private matter. politics and religeon, well, I try to be as diplomatic as possible but it usually ends up in quite a battle instead of a discussion. I'm slender, trim, goatee and pony-tail, pale skin. I enjoy many types of music, debate, dance, writing, computer related hobbies, etc. etc. I'm a quiet type in public, usually 'disguised' so to speak, so as not to draw attention to myself. When I do, I generally stand out. Though soft spoken, I have the capacity to be quite viscious, though I'm often mistaken for the clown when in a group of associates. I am a dominate personality, however, I'm well experienced with situations that arise from having 'too many chiefs, and not enough little indians'. I have enough sense to realize when an able leader is present and doing their job and to fall in with the effort, but I do not tollerate nor follow fools. I am comfortable with my abilities, though not drown in either pride nor ego. I seek someone to talk to online, email and chat. I rarely find those of like mind, so, I take my time getting to know people. I might gravitate into a closer relationship with others after knowing them for a while, but I do not hold my breath in anticipation. I seek, without looking. Without expectation. I tend to enjoy a female whom has similar interests, perhaps with an artistic side, be it with a pen or brush, or a musical voice or magical fingers that can tame an angry beast while playing an instrument. I think the quickest thing that turns me off is someone who raises their voice, argues instead of really comm